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Breastfeeding:  The Stories Behind the Statistics

 

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Who is the Book For? 

Most Important Messages

What Makes it Unique?

Whose Stories are Included?

 Table of Contents

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Official breastfeeding support has never been higher, yet only 14 percent of women exclusively breastfeed at six months, a far cry from the national goal of 50 percent.  Why such a discrepancy? 

And why does breastfeeding remain so controversial?  Everything from the brouhaha surrounding breastfeeding and co-sleeping, to the pros and cons of attachment parenting, to the scandalous way publicly nursing mothers are treated, to the question of when is a child too old to nurse, myths and misinformation abound. Yet mothers struggle with these issues every day.

 In The Breastfeeding Café:  Mothers Share the Joys, Challenges & Secrets of Nursing, sociologist and author Barbara L. Behrmann addresses these issues and more.  Part cultural critique, part support group, Behrmann weaves together stories with information, insight and facts.  In exploring what it means to nurse in our fast-paced, consumer-oriented culture, Behrmann raises questions such as:  

?How does a woman’s birth experience affect her ability to breastfeed?  How do hospital-based procedures and policies undermine breastfeeding?  How do women deal with a baby who wants to nurse constantly or who is too sleepy to nurse?  How do women feed babies born prematurely or with medical complications?

?What are the struggles women experience as nursing mothers in the work force?  When they have to be hospitalized?  When they have twins or triplets to feed? 

?How do women manage the mixed messages they receive about their breasts?  How does nursing affect women’s sexuality and intimacy?  How do cultural standards about beauty affect the ability to produce milk?

?Why do so many women describe breastfeeding as empowering, even healing?  Why do some women continue to nurse preschool aged children?

An excellent resource for expectant women, new mothers, those who work with them, and anyone interested in the cultural politics of parenting, The Breastfeeding Café educates, surprises, and inspires.  “Breastfeeding isn’t just important for babies,” asserts the author, “it also matters to women and to the kind of parent-child relationships mothers want to create.”

Breastfeeding Matters to Women...

...not just to babies. The stories reveal how nursing affects the way we mother, as well as  our identities as women, mothers, and lovers. They reveal the nursing relationship in all its complexity and show how our experiences and perceptions are influenced by a culture that often makes it difficult to establish and develop a satisfying nursing relationship.

Women Need Support...

...and even more so when it comes to nursing a toddler, preschooler, or older child. Many face similar situations - lack of support and appreciation for the day-to-day work of nurturing our children and a lack of public understanding that breastfeeding involves more than nutrition, immunology and health, but is also about comfort, security and connection.

In a society in which pregnancy, childbirth and child rearing are subject to increasingly sophisticated technology and ever-ready “expert” advice, women have the power to be each other's greatest allies. We can provide each other with wisdom, insight and inspiration, and validate and reinforce each other in the many choices we make for our lives.

A Community of Nursing Women

The Breastfeeding Café arose out of my desire to help create a culture in which breastfeeding is visible and valued. Nothing can take the place of supportive family, friends, and nursing mothers face-to-face. But The Breastfeeding Café can provide the next best thing - a community of nursing women you can visit whenever you are in need of company and support. 

Who is the Book For?

Pregnant women and nursing mothersThe Breastfeeding Café is a community of nursing mothers and a place for women to go to for support, validation, and inspiration.  It also helps women identify, avoid, and overcome many of the obstacles women face in developing and maintaining a successful nursing relationship in a bottle-feeding culture.

Health care professionals and people who works with pregnant women and new mothers.  So often women only seek help in the early days of nursing.  This prevents their helpers from seeing the long term impact of the time they spent together.  A month, a year, even ten years later, what they did – or didn’t do - during those first days or weeks with that new mother often continues to have a huge impact.  Reading the stories in The Breastfeeding Café can help health care professionals become more compassionate and sensitive. 

What Are the Most Important Messages?

Women need good breastfeeding information, support, and understanding. Breastfeeding a baby is not always easy. Advice and information are crucial, but sometimes women just need support, understanding and a window into the day-to-day reality of nursing and nurturing our children. This holds true for mothers with nurslings of all ages and stages.

Breastfeeding matters to women.   What many women consider to be one of the most significant experiences of their lives, remains devalued and largely invisible.

Many women nurse in a bottle-feeding culture.  An individual woman’s breastfeeding experience is influenced by many factors.  In the U.S. and other similar countries, one of the most encompassing factors is that nursing takes place within a bottle-feeding culture.  This not only affects women’s experiences of breastfeeding, but it influences how women think about and interpret their experiences.

What Makes The Breastfeeding Café  Unique?

 

No other breastfeeding book offers stories from such a diverse group of women.  The stories alone are honest and compelling, but equally important is the analysis and information surrounding them.  As summarized in the Journal of Human Lactation, the book is a “tapestry of women’s voices interwoven with well-researched background and thoughtful commentary.”  Overall, the book is really part support group, part cultural critique. 

Where do the Stories Come From?

The women whose stories appear in this book all live in the United States, yet they represent all walks of life: they are married and single, in the work force and out, white and blue collar, wealthy and poor, young and old. They have different ethnic and racial backgrounds, sexual orientations, and religious and philosophical beliefs. They gave birth in hospitals, birth centers, and at home, and had both positive and negative birthing experiences. Some women nursed for a few weeks; others for a few years. They had wonderful experiences and painful/disappointing ones. They have healthy children and sick children. Together they portray both the unique and universal dimensions of breastfeeding in a modern, contemporary, bottle-feeding culture.

Table of Contents

Chapter 1: A Legacy from the Past: Stories of Disempowerment and Determination

Chapter 2: Welcome to Motherhood: Stories of Initiation, Tenacity and Adjustment

Chapter 3: No Mother is an Island: Stories of Family, Community and Support

Chapter 4: Becoming Wiser: Stories of Experience, Insight and Discovery

Chapter 5: A Balancing Act: Stories of Readjustment, Identity and Boundaries

Chapter 6: Doing it All: Stories of Motherhood and Livelihood

Chapter 7: An Embodied Relationship: Stories of Contradiction, Sexuality and Intimacy

Chapter 8: Finding Strength: Stories of Reclamation, Empowerment and Healing

Chapter 9: Moving on and Letting Go: Stories of Weaning and Milestones

Conclusion

Appendix: Breastfeeding Resources

 

Chapter Summaries

 

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