Still Think It's OK for Babies to Cry it Out?  Think Again.

Barbara Behrmann, Ph.D.

“You can’t pick that baby up every time she cries.  You’ll spoil her!”  Not true, say researchers at Harvard Medical School’s Department of Psychiatry.   A recent study found that the dominant American practices of letting babies “cry it out” and having them sleep in separate beds and rooms away from their parents not only cause undo stress in the short term, but can have life long implications.  Separation induced stress, they found, affects a baby’s nervous system, making them more sensitive to future stress and possibly to more post-traumatic stress and panic disorders as an adult. 

Confirming what advocates of attachment parenting have long argued, children need security in order to feel safe and explore their world.  Warm physical and emotional contact forms the basis of that security.  In short, responding to a baby’s cries does not teach them to become dependent; it teaches them to trust their world.  So keep on encouraging parents to pick up their babies.  Comfort them when they cry.  Sleep with the baby nearby.  And let them know that their desire to respond to their baby has scientific backing.

Read more about the study at The Harvard University Gazette.

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